I used to always try to convince people. When I feel good about something, or get happiness from something, I want others to experience the same. One of the things that makes me happy is sports, and I prefer to share this with others so that they experience the same feeling. Now today my girlfriend asked me if she could join me in sports. When you keep investing time in something that energizes you, sooner or later there will come a time when others will come to you. The law of attraction. Not persuasion, but genuine interest. We did leg day together, it’s cool to see how happy another person becomes when they achieve something.